Extensive research into online dating statistics show that there are some set rules that we all need to follow.
Messages using words like will more often than not end up getting deleted immediately.
Better to focus on interests, or even better, common interests. Talking about your own interests can give the recipient a good idea of what you are like.
It seems this is almost as important as talking about their interests so using any word that describes an interest or hobby is great, once your hobby isn’t too weird.
Ideally, though, you’ll have some sort of common interests and once you’ve picked up on that then a conversation, or better still, a date could be just around the corner.
Netspeak is the main culprit when it comes to unsuccessful first mails.