Q: My boyfriend is moving to another state for a job opportunity that’s too good to turn down.
Bustle has enlisted Vanessa Marin, a licensed sex psychotherapist based in San Francisco, to help us out with the specifics.
This week’s topic: How to have video and phone sex when you're in a long distance relationship.
Nonetheless, it’s probably the most exciting way to maintain your sex life when you’re apart.
Here are some ideas for places to start: Spontaneously transitioning to phone or video sex is fun, but if you have roommates or opposing schedules to contend with, you might be more successful if you plan beforehand.
You might find it easier to express yourself using pen and paper, or a more sultry side of your personality might emerge.